The first of October was meant to be The Day: the day which I met with The Monster, and talked to him face-to-face about the past, and how we needed to be in the present for the sake of a civil future.
He was sick.
Well, dammit.
Not that the meeting was the only item on the day’s agenda: an old friend from church was getting married that afternoon, so we had already arranged with my in-laws to watch our brood.
“What about Holy Hill?” Bo asked as he stroked my hair. I lay curled up against him, still choked up from crying (again). “You’ve talked about going there. For pictures, right?”
I nodded. Another booger streaked his shirt. Oops.
But it was true: I’ve always wanted to have a photo post dedicated to Holy Hill. As a child, I occasionally caught site of Holy Hill from the highway on our way to various relations. On a clear day you can see the steeples from dozens of miles away, vice versa for standing in its observation tower: my first time was in autumn, and all of Wisconsin’s countryside was firey bright, a patchwork of crops, city spires off among the clouds–
And October began tomorrow! We’d be able to see the color changes! I could feel my despair shift. No, the day would not be what I had wanted, but it would most certainly be a day worth having.
~*~
Rain.
We dressed the kids as they fought over banana bread (“NO, I HAVE THE MOST CHOCOLATE CHIPS!”) and drove to Milwaukee with minimal toy-throwing.
I hated the dimness of the day, the lack of definition to the expanse overhead. Hell, it wasn’t even dramatic, like The Nothing from The Neverending Story. It was just…there. Cold and misty and there.
Well, dammit.
We passed circus-size tents where Christian rock thrummed in celebration of the St. John Bosco Youth Festival (Catholics, you’ll have to help me on this one. Lutherans don’t get the saint-fest stuff.). This was supposed to be a quiet autumn day. Colors. Sun. Life. Not a desperate summer green shivering beneath the gathered mist-drops.
Why the HELL did we come today? I can’t even see past the hillside!
And yet. Yet there’s something rather cool about the crosses atop the spires being lost in the clouds. Of losing the world to the mist, and finding oneself in a place of faith. Of soul.
Bo and I eat in the monks’ dining area (yes, there are still monks there) and head for the main basilica…only to get befuddled by all the visitors, and wind up in a strange concrete atrium with a utility door fit for a moving truck. Through what looks like a chapel door, and we find ourselves in a sort of basement sanctuary. Small, bright windows, and a very pain-filled Christ. Where was everyone?
Aha! The scenic tower, where I could touch low-hanging heaven…
Nope. Closed due to fog. (And youth, I bet. They keep throwing things like apples for some reason. Rowdy Catholic teenagers.)
Well, dammit.
On the main terrace, I struggle to get what shots I could. Having but a meager camera phone, I couldn’t possibly capture the basilica in one shot, but I tried anyway.
Families abounded. I found…huh. I found I didn’t mind. A church should feel this kind of life, what with toddlers whining, fathers chiding, and old ladies kissing. Yes, there was goofery about, but a respect, too, even from the teens, when one reached that entrance.
We stepped through, only to find the main doors shut. Mass.
“Do we wait?” I couldn’t bear to get this far only to be forced back into the mists.
Bo checked his watch, shrugged. “We’ve got time.”
So we watched the closing pageantry. Listened to the choir, so light, so in tune (we Lutherans are not known for our singing.). Watched an older lady stick her water bottle in the holy water to…um…save some for later? Should one be drinking that stuff, or was she preparing for a showdown with a vampire?
Mass over at last, we go in.
I can’t do this place justice, of course, nor its parishoners. Arguments of religion being the opiate of the masses have no sway in such a place, where crutches and braces are left by the miraculously healed, and light itself sings as it passes through the colored glass. Where saints and God mingle with the incense. I looked into the eyes of those here, and saw faith. When a priest can speak to the struggling, and ignite a hope another can sense even at a distance…that’s true faith.
~*~
A new church…well, for you. An old church for me.
This was my father’s childhood church. Even his kindergarten teacher still attended in a wheelchair. Decades later, while Dad was serving in central Wisconsin, she wrote to him in delicate cursive, begging him to come and heal their church before it was too late. After a formal Call from the church’s council and weeks of deliberation, Dad felt Milwaukee’s north side, full of poverty and racial tension, was where God wanted him to be. He served here eight years, even officiated my marriage to Bo here, then moved where God called him, and called him…until He called him to his heavenly home.
I sat in a pew my father likely used as a child, and wanted to cry.
Dad would never be in that pulpit, or any pulpit. Loss, so much fucking loss. I clutched Bo’s hand, desperate to sense a soul again.
Wedding music. Bridesmaids, flower girls throwing autumn leaves.
A pause in music. Now a delicate melody. My friend, radiant in lace and pearls. She’d gone through her own thorny trials with love. Today marked her triumph over all.
I cried, clapped. Pretty sure I whooped at one point. By God, did it feel good to cry for something other than pain.
~*~
These past several weeks have seen me struggling with boxes of old memories. The Monster’s presence inside those boxes had finally leaked through, and turned all they touched black-green with rot. I couldn’t experience anything in the present without that taint.
At last, I found something new: A box of memories The Monster couldn’t wreck. It took physically stepping into the past to open it, but once there, the painful anxiety of moving into that which I had feared dispersed like mist in the sun.
The world glistened for the first time in ever, and I found I could not stop smiling as I held those memories to my cheek and remembered their loving touch.
Their hope.
As gentle a tale one could ever wish to read…a tale that outshone any residual darkness they may have been lurking. Splendid stuff.
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Thank you, Time-Traveler of the Ages. xxx
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You are a wonderful lady Jean. Mike says it all there, I am away wiping a tear xxxxxxx
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A good tear, I hope. 🙂 xxxxx
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This was just beautiful. Well done 🙂
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Thank you, Friend. xxx
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Now I’m going to be all misty making breakfast 🙂 Lovely piece, and here’s to the good memories!
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Remember the tower? That was such an awesome school strip. 🙂
Here’s to good memories, indeed. xxxx
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I do, and it was, even though one of the most vivid parts of the memory is how I should have worn a warmer sweater so I could have enjoyed the view longer 🙂 I love the wedding pic of you and Bo too- that was a great night!
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LOL! Yeah, that was one blustery day. I’m thank for that wedding pic, too–it’s a perfectly captured moment.
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Damn
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For the last 25 years, 1 October has been a special day for me—in a good way. You’ve made it a wonderfully special day for you too. It’s a beautiful post Jean. Thank you.
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I’m happy to have shared the day with you. xxxx
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Hope and healing, wonderful!
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Thank you!
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Hooray! Let the healing continue!
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Incredible post.
Much much love to you, you remarkable woman and writer.
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There’s a memoir brewing in these quiet, tentative steps en route to your freedom, Jean. 🙂 You weave the past and present together so eloquently and the truth of them resonate on a much higher level than just “so that happened.” I encourage you to think about collecting them all some day and putting them out there for others who are similarly tormented to draw strength and wisdom from. As each of us steps through our own pain, others are free to follow because they’ve been shown the way.
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Thank you. 🙂 I have wondered about this, honestly, but I fear the ripples through reality such a stone will make…
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Praying for you, and it appears all is going according to plan, whatever the heaven it is.
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Thank you, Friend. 🙂
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Thanks for dropping by, Jean. Glad you enjoyed the first part of my humble tale.
I enjoyed your writing here, too. I really need to spend more time wandering round your site. I need more time in the day and nights. 😉
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Thank you kindly! I think all writers would agree that being given more time to read and write is the most precious gift of all. 🙂
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A beautifully written post, such gorgeuus pictures, and an awesome you: Thanks for sharing Jean
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And I thank you for reading, Marie. 🙂
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Wishing them happiness. You have got many great pictures. The good thing is that you can go there again because you didn’t see the autumn foliage this time. Woohoo, another trip! 🙂
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Indeed! A friend of ours went the following week, and of COURSE he got to climb the tower, enjoy blue sky and loads of color. I was envious at first, but then I realized, as you did, that this just means I can come back. Not until next year, but still–it’s a’comin’. 🙂 xxxx
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Isn’t it wonderful that there is a beautiful day waiting for you sometime next year 🙂
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This is truly stunning, beautiful and dark. I get this so much. I’ve probably been thinking about life too much this morning. I’m going to make a pot of coffee then wonder off to the church and graveyard which is 50 yards away. It’s grey and misty here. Going to just wander. Take care.xx
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Good. We should all wander now and then. xxxx
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